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This study examines the dynamics of marital relationships within the Muslim community of Lombok, where high religiosity does not necessarily correspond to the achievement of the noble purposes of marriage. The high divorce rate is taken as evidence of difficulties in realizing the values of al-mawaddah (love) and ar-rahmah (compassion) within marital life. Employing a descriptive-analytic approach, the research integrates social exchange theory and a socio-religious framework, supported by empirical data on divorce rates. The findings indicate that the erosion of al-mawaddah and ar-rahmah values stems from a paradigm shift-from a marriage model grounded in mutual rights and obligations to one emphasizing individual freedom. This shift leads to an imbalance, communication breakdown, rising expectations, and transformations in social values. From an Islamic perspective, marriage is not merely a transactional contract but a sacred covenant (mitsaqan ghalidzan) imbued with religious meaning. Al-mawaddah generates deep emotional attachment, while ar-rahmah nurtures endurance, patience, and sacrifice, thereby reinforcing marital harmony. The study contributes to understanding social changes within the marital institution in Lombok and underscores the significance of al-mawaddah and ar-rahmah as essential principles in sustaining marital stability and preventing divorce.

The high divorce rate in Lombok reveals a decline in family resilience and a transformation in the values of al-mawaddah (affection) and ar-rahmah (compassion) within marriage.The study concludes that this phenomenon is rooted in shifting perceptions of marital bonds—from sacred relationships based on mutual rights and responsibilities to individualized, transactional partnerships affected by poor communication and changing social norms.Religion, which ideally functions as a moral and emotional compass, has become increasingly detached from daily family practices.Therefore, revitalizing mawaddah and rahmah as lived values is essential to restore balance between emotional, spiritual, and social dimensions of marriage.

To address the high divorce rates and strengthen family resilience in Lombok, it is crucial to explore the erosion of socio-religious values that underpin marriage, particularly al-mawaddah and ar-rahmah. The study suggests that couples need to shift their perspectives on marriage, reinvest in the values of affection and compassion, and strive to maintain a balanced relationship. Ensuring mutual appreciation and emotional support, they are more likely to remain committed to their relationship. Additionally, the study highlights the importance of integrating the values of al-mawaddah and ar-rahmah into daily family life, offering a path toward enduring love, mutual respect, and the restoration of family resilience amid modern social changes. Further research could employ comparative or mixed-method approaches to explore how al-mawaddah and ar-rahmah operate in different cultural, socio-economic, or interfaith family contexts, enhancing theoretical understanding and providing stronger empirical support for policies on family resilience in diverse settings.

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  2. Gender Equity in Islamic Marriage and Divorce: A Narrative Review | Sinergi International Journal of... doi.org/10.61194/ijis.v2i4.611Gender Equity in Islamic Marriage and Divorce A Narrative Review Sinergi International Journal of doi 10 61194 ijis v2i4 611
  3. THE CONCEPT OF MARRIAGE FROM THE HASBI ASH-SHIDDIEQY PERSPECTIVE : An Approach Maqasidi On Verses of... jurnalmiqotojs.uinsu.ac.id/index.php/jurnalmiqot/article/view/1078THE CONCEPT OF MARRIAGE FROM THE HASBI ASH SHIDDIEQY PERSPECTIVE An Approach Maqasidi On Verses of jurnalmiqotojs uinsu ac index php jurnalmiqot article view 1078
  4. Analysis of Merariq Kodeq Tradition Practiced by Sasak Indigenous People in Lombok Based on Max Weber... eduvest.greenvest.co.id/index.php/edv/article/view/850Analysis of Merariq Kodeq Tradition Practiced by Sasak Indigenous People in Lombok Based on Max Weber eduvest greenvest index php edv article view 850
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